How To Deal With Hypoactive Sexual Desire

By: L R Asencio

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Information concerning how to deal with hypoactive sexual desire is becoming increasingly available as this disorder is made public. Hypoactive sexual desire refers to a libido so low that someone does not have sexual fantasies nor desire for sexual activity. It's not considered a psychological problem unless it is isolated from major life events and affects their sexual or romantic relationships with their partners. Treating hypoactive sexual desire can involve different treatments, but overall is best handled through the help of a medical professional. 

  1. Isolate the root of hypoactive sexual desire. Many times, someone can attribute their sexual desires to a major life event, such as illness or traumatic changes. Discover what it is that is at the root of the loss of sexual desire. If something major has happened, there is a chance someone needs a little stimulation and time to work on getting back to a normal or previously experienced level of desire. 
  2. Seek out a sex therapist. Sex therapy is one of the best ways to isolate and define the causes and necessary treatments of hypoactive sexual desire. A professional sex therapist will render solid advice for guidance that can reactivate lost sexual desire. 
  3. Examine your relationship. Upon further investigation, it can be discovered that someone simply has lost attraction to their spouse or partner, thus leading them to be void of any sexual desire, no matter what happens. When this is discovered, it may be time to really examine problems within the relationship, and seek counseling as a couple or individually to work on the underlying root that eliminates the sexual attraction between both people. 
  4. Ask about hormone therapy. Testosterone is a male hormone that can be used in hormone therapy to biologically stimulate sexual desire when it is lost. A licensed medical professional can prescribe this solution if it is thought to be potentially effective. 
Posted on: Nov. 30, 2010