How Do You Stimulate Her Clit To Orgasm?

By: Zach Feral

Break Studios Contributing Writer

It’s a question a lot of guys are asking: how do you stimulate her clit to orgasm? There’s no one easy method. Rather, it’s a good idea to employ a range of sexual techniques in order to stimulate her clit to orgasm. Here are a few of them.

  1. Heavy petting. You don’t stimulate her clit to orgasm by clumsily grabbing at it. This isn’t a penis, you know! You can start by rubbing at it softly with your hand. Do this through the fabric of her underwear. Once she gets excited—and you’ll be able to tell through her body language—you can slip those panties right off.
  2. Make sure you know where you’re going. You can’t stimulate her clit to orgasm if you can’t even find it. The clitoris is the little round nub located directly above the inner labia. The clit is covered by a thin nub of skin, which is sort of like a foreskin. Most women can’t handle direct contact with the clit, so focus on that nub of outer skin.
  3. Use your fingers and hands. Be sure to ask if she likes it fast or slow. Try using different parts of your hand and different fingers. You won’t stimulate her clit to orgasm by merely resting your hand down there.
  4. Go down on her. Don’t go straight for the clit. First, spend some time pleasuring her inner and outer labia with your tongue. Slowly work your way up to the clit, tonguing it repeatedly. This is a sure way to stimulate her clit to orgasm.
Posted on: Dec. 29, 2010