How To Dump Your Girlfriend
Learning how to dump your girlfriend is not easy and one is the most difficult decision a man can make. You do not want to be that jerk who made her cry, and her have family and friends turn against you, or the one ex she rants about every time she hears your name. Unfortunately the job must be done regardless there be lots of crying.
- Talk to her face to face. Any method to dump your girlfriend sucks but letting her know face to face is the classiest one of them all. There is a high chance most people have not met their girlfriends online to write the Dear Jane letter- unless you are long distance. In addition, it is completely cowardly to disappear out of thin air, unless you magically appear in front of her eyes during the first meeting together, and that chance is zero. Dump her face to face, as it shows respect for her and the relationship you invested.
- Be honest. Cut the lame "it's not you, it's me" crap and let her know the real reason you are dumping her. Do not be too brutal where she is scarred for years because what you said, but raise issues within the relationship and tell her how much you try to resolve it and it never worked. Perhaps she can learn from her mistakes and do better in the next relationship.
- Move on. You do not need to sit around and hold each other for thirty minutes, expressing how sorry you are for dumping your one time love. The two things your now ex girlfriend most likely want to do during that half an hour is grieve in private after you dump her or beg and plea her way back into your arms. Since you don't want to see neither or start second guessing yourself, say a heartfelt goodbye then make a clean break away.
- Cut off all contact. You might had a nice girlfriend and want to be her friend a week after the breakup, in hopes she might be feeling better than before, but in reality, the feelings are still strong. Don't try to contact her to see how she is doing- be it phone, email, chat messages and other social-networking sites you communicated with your ex girlfriend. Allow her to go through the stages of being dumped and let her heal. If enough time passed by, maybe you two can reconnect. If you do not want anything to do with her at all, remain silent.