How To Enjoy Sex Without Intercourse

Learning how to enjoy sex without intercourse is a very important skill to create a loving and long-lasting relationship. Guys, let's face it, women are not always in the mood for sex. However, most women are always in the mood for intimacy. The line between sex and intimacy is a very fine one, and can sometimes start friction in an otherwise healthy relationship. Learning to balance both partner's sexual needs and desires is a crucial part of creating and maintaining a relationship.

Ok, imagine that it's 11 p.m. and you and your partner are ready to go to bed. You're in the mood, but she's had a hard day. You're almost afraid to ask if she wants to have sex. What do you do? Some guys would say that they would jack off in the bathroom, and then drift off to sleep like a baby. This may be the easy way out, but she's not going to be happy with you. Use the following steps for guidelines the next time you find yourself in this situation.

1. So, what's a man to do? Follow her lead. Kiss her goodnight and see how the kiss feels. If it's just a simple goodnight kiss, sex is probably out of the question. The trick is learning how to enjoy sex without having intercourse. Put your arms around her, hold her, and kiss her neck. This may be just what she wants, and you might actually enjoy it too. 
2. Don't forget  It's important to remember that a relationship is about so much more than sex. If sex is the most important aspect of your relationship, it probably won't last very long. On the other hand, having intimacy is what carries a relationship through the years. Being fully content in each other's arms is crucial. So hold her, spoon her, and let her take this night off. Your turn will come, in due time. 
3. Do it her way  She will drift off to sleep in your arms, and surely will have a smile on her face. Trust me, this is so much more important than sex. These kind of moments are what really matters in the big picture. Sex is great, but it's important to have these special moments as well. 

It doesn't take much time or effort to enjoy sex without intercourse. The special moments in a relationship usually don't include sex, and sex is not the most important part of your relationship. In the big picture, intimacy is what carries a relationship through the years.