How To Find A Date

By: Natalie Murillo

Break Studios Contributing Writer

How to find a date may initially seem like a daunting task. Yet with a little creativity and an open mind, finding a date can easily be achieved. Use the following tips to get started on finding a date.

  1. Expand your horizons. Do you always eat at the same local restaurant, or hang out at the same coffee shop or pub? Think outside the box. Start going to new or different places, and you'll increase your chances of finding a date.
     
  2. Follow your interests. Consider what hobbies and activities you enjoy, then see if you can find a local club or group where like-minded people come together for the activity. This could be anything from a sports league, book club or a church-related group. Joining a group or club that interests you not only opens up your chances of finding a date, but also ensures that any potential date you meet will share at least one common interest with you.
     
  3. Dive into the 'net. Using an online dating service to find a date offers many benefits. It allows you to browse profiles of a wide variety of women who are also looking for a date, and lets you search for the specific characteristics that you're looking for in a date. Internet dating services also help to keep things low key by letting you communicate via email until you decide that you're ready to go on an actual date.
     
  4. Find an offline singles group. Check to see if your town or city has a local singles group. Typically, these groups meet periodically for a fun activity such as a restaurant outing or an evening of bowling to allow its members to get to know each other and find someone they may be interested in dating. You may also be able to find a specialized singles group, such as one for single parents or a church-based one. If your particular location doesn't have an active singles group, check in the nearest local city and you'll likely find one there.
     
  5. Enlist your friends and family. Choose a few trusted friends or family members who know you well, and tell them that you'd like to find a date. Ask them to introduce you to someone they may know who they feel would make a good date for you. If you don't feel totally comfortable with the idea of blind dates, arrange to meet first in a group setting with the friend introducing you.
     
Posted on: Jul. 11, 2010