Sometimes you're just in it to win it for a minute; figure out how to find sex hook ups and get your rocks off without having to worry about a relationship. Hooking up probably seemed pretty easy when you were in college. Now that you're an adult, you might not have access to so many available women. They're out there, you just need to learn where to look.
- Hang out in hotel bars. This trick works for expensive prostitutes and it'll work for you when you're on the prowl for sex hook ups. Women who are traveling alone are way more interested in finding sex hook ups than the women you see everyday at your job. Women from out of town don't need to worry about awkward encounters with you in the future or you getting clingy (yes, women also have that problem). They have no reason not to have some fun with you for a night. Make up a reason to be at the bar on your own and make sure that she's a guest and not one of the aforementioned working girls and you're good to go.
- Join a dating site. Dating sites are full of women looking just to get laid and they're a great place to find sex hook ups. Contact the ones who are interested in "Casual Dating." Most women won't list if they're interested in "Casual Sex" because this results in creepy men emailing them obscene messages and pictures of their penises. Send a few women friendly and flirty messages and you should be able to gauge if any are interested in very casual dating and sex hook ups. You'll probably have to meet up at a bar or something to check each other out in person before you get any play, but this is in both of your interests.
- Check out bars frequented by older women. Now that divorce is so prevalent, plenty of older women are back on the market trying to find sex hook ups. While it's true some of them may be looking for a relationship, there are also lots who just want to have fun with a sex hook up. Most of them will be pretty honest about whether they're looking for a new husband or just a temporary toy.