How To Finger A Woman Properly

If you are on a quest to enhance foreplay time with your woman or want to increase your partner’s arousal for sex, then try these tips to learn how to finger a woman properly. Fingering a woman or giving her a hand job can be a great way to give your partner pleasure and get her in the mood. There are different techniques to try so remember women don’t respond to the same things. Pleasure is increased for both partners when there is open communication in the bedroom.

1. Lube can be your best friend. Many woman do not enjoy being fingered (and sometimes intercourse) because of lack of lubrication. Many men wrongfully thing that if they can’t make their woman wet on their own then she is not enjoying what they are doing and they become frustrated. This is a myth. Some women’s bodies have a hard time producing natural lubrication. Even if your woman does not have this issue you still might want to discuss using a store bought lubricant with her. There are many different varieties on the market. Some types of lubricant to consider using during fingering your woman would be the ones that heat up or cause tingling sensations.
2. Don’t jump the gun. Most women like to start kissing and touching before any other sexual act takes place. To find out if your woman would like to start out this way, all you have to do is ask. Try touching her in varied speeds and pressures. While doing this pay close attention to the sounds she makes and her facial expressions. This will give you an idea of how she likes to be touched before you have even started.
3. Now it’s time to start exploring. If you don’t know where a woman’s clitoris is, it’s time to learn. The clitoris is the small nub located right at the arch of her lips. It is one of the most sensitive areas on her body. The most common orgasm for a woman to be able to achieve is a clitoral orgasm. Use the amount of pressure and speed she seemed to like when you where just touching her to explore this area of her body. You’ll notice that the more aroused she get, the harder her clitoris will become.
4. You got to have rhythm. Just like with a man, a woman will achieve orgasm faster if her partner finds the rhythm of her body. To do this, watch for the cues of her body like you did before.