How To Finger Your Girlfriend
Learning how to finger your girlfriend takes practice and skill. Don't treat her like a delicate flower, the vagina is an amazing part of the female body that can give birth. Bigger things can fit inside the vagina so don't be afraid to finger your girlfriend and even be rough. While it may seem like you're hurting her, the rougher you finger your girlfriend, the better it actually feels. A small wiggle with one finger won't even feel like anything, so vary the amount of fingers and vary your speed! Start out slow, with some gentle rubbing on and around her clitoris to rev things up. Make sure she's good and aroused before entering your fingers into her vagina.
- Two Finger Technique For some women, the more fingers the better. While it is partly personal preference and partly skill on the man's behalf, there are excellent ways to finger your girlfriend to orgasm with just two fingers; your index and middle finger. Try moving your fingers in alternate directions as fast as you can, as though your fingers are walking inside her vagina. The faster you go, the more vibration and friction that it creates. Watch your girlfriend squirm at the flick of your fingers, literally.
- The Palm Use your thumb to rub your girlfriend's clitoris while placing all four fingers inside her vagina. You can start out with two fingers to ease your way in and then gradually insert a third finger and finally the fourth. Move in and out as hard as you can for maximum climax and pleasure, as if you are about to shake hands. This will surely drive her wild, and can be great for rougher play. With a twist of your palm, place your fingers flat and horizontal, palm facing up and curl your fingers back and forth in a come hither motion. This technique can be great for G-spot stimulation.
- Speed Vary your speed accordingly to your girlfriend's reactions and the rhythm of her orgasm. In general, starting out slow and increasing speed and intensity works best. Make sure that pacing is taken into account. Don't be afraid to take some pauses and rest, teasing her for more.