How To Get Back With An Ex Girlfriend

By: Anessia Walker

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Learn about how to get back with an ex-girlfriend when you miss her. You feel you messed-up royally when you let your ex-girlfriend go. Your thoughts are consumed with the moments you shared with your ex. Even though there were some bad times, you realize now, the good times outweigh the bad. Now you have to ask yourself what you are willing to endure to get your ex-girlfriend back. Depending on how and why the relationship ended, you may be traveling down a rough road. Don’t be surprised if you get mixed emotions from your ex: anger, excitement, sadness and betrayal. Just be prepared for the roller coaster ride your girlfriend might take you on before you get her back. If she is worth it, hang in there and here’s how to do it.

Be patient. You might be eager to get back together with your girlfriend, but she might need a little convincing. Refrain from getting an attitude with her if she doesn’t run back into your arms. Give her a chance to sort through her feelings. If you get an attitude with her for not being anxious about getting back together, you might risk pushing your ex way.
Don’t date other girls. In order for your girlfriend to take you seriously, you can’t see other girls. If she finds out while you are trying to get her back you are dating other girls, it will backfire on you. She’ll think you are trying to make a fool out of her. The odds of you getting her back then will be slim to none.
Apologize for your part in the break-up. Girls are very compassionate so convey to her how deeply sorry you are. Just you taking responsibility for the demise of the relationship will warm her heart; a second chance might be in your future.
Be sincere about how you feel about your ex-girlfriend. Don’t just tell your ex-girlfriend how you feel about her; show her. Write her a poem, mail her a card. Being in the age of emails and text messages, which are easy to send, will show her something different. Find creative ways, like making her a gift instead of buying her one, to show her how you feel.
Honesty is important. You’ve decided you are ready to get your ex-girlfriend back; be prepared to answer some questions. You’re ex-girlfriend may ask you a line of questions you will never be ready to answer; it’s unavoidable. If it involves the reason you and her broke up, take a deep breath and fess-up if you want your ex-girlfriend back.
Ask ex-girlfriend out on date. When you and your ex-girlfriend first started dating everything was fresh and new and exciting. Try to recapture those moments. Take your ex to one of her favorite places where the two of you have had a lot of good times. Better yet, take her somewhere that she wanted to go, but you never made it because you broke-up.
Reminisce about the good times the two of you shared. Remind her of all the fun the two of you shared. Try not to dwell on negative events that happen in the past, even if she did something to cause the relationship to end. Obviously, you have forgiven her or you wouldn’t be trying to get her back.