How To Get A Girl You Like

By: Mallorie Greene

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Wondering how to get a girl you like? It's a bold step to try to get her as there is a chance she will reject your advances. As humans, when we see something we like, we often go for it, and this applies in not only to material things, but potential partners as well. If you want a girl you like, take a chance. You don't want to regret it later in life.

Steps

  1. Believe in yourself. To get the girl you like comes with having confidence in your abilities that you can get any woman you set your eyes on. Play on your strengths to get a girl's attention and keep her interested in you and your conversation.
  2. Start with a small conversation. Say hello, introduce yourself, and if she responds back, make small talk and gradually have longer conversations the more you talk to her. Even out the conversation not only talking about yourself, but try to get to know her too.  Being a listener as well as a talker is a great balance in a conversation and she will love that you can do both.
  3. Focus on the girl. When talking to the girl you like, make sure your attention is on her, not all the women surrounding you two. It is insulting to her if you have wandering eyes. It defeats the purpose of getting to know her on a romantic level.
  4. Compliment her. Every time you see the girl you like, compliment her hair or say how beautiful she looks in an outfit. Girls love compliments from a guy who takes notice in her appearance. But don't overdo it.
  5. Make her laugh. Aside from handsome men, girls love a guy who can wow them with personality or humor. You do not have to be a comedian or go over the top with your humor but say a few silly random things to get her to laugh. The more you do that, the more she will get comfortable hanging around you.
Posted on: Sep. 03, 2010