How To Get A Girl To Like You

By: Sharon Yam

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Learning how to get a girl to like you is helpful in various circumstances, and it is more widely applicable than pick-up tricks that are limited only to bars and night clubs. Remember that the tricks below serve only as general guidelines, and a lot depends on how you carry yourself. 

  1. Be confident. Everyone, not only girls, prefer to make friends with someone who has self-esteem. Thus, if you want to get a girl to like you, the first thing you need to do is to be confident about your appearance, personality, and ability. This entails wearing decent clothes, maintaining personal hygiene, and having a fulfilled life. However, do not be cocky or overly proud. If you want to get a girl to like you, you first need to like yourself. 
  2. Be interesting. Having fun hobbies and engaging in activities you enjoy will make you a more interesting person. When you first meet a girl, you will have ample of topics to talk about. She is more likely to enjoy your company if the conversations are fun. To get a girl to like you, talk about something you are passionate of.
  3. Be inquisitive. Anyone enjoys talking about themselves, so to get a girl to like you, you will need to be inquisitive about her life. This is not to say that you should scrutinize her personal details, but that you should try to find out more about her interests and hobbies. Not only will that get the girl to like you, it will also help you understand her more and decide whether you two are really compatible. 

Tips: Trying to get a girl to like you can be daunting, but you should never pretend to be someone who you are not. If you don't share her hobbies, there is no need to feign that you do. 

Posted on: Aug. 27, 2010