How To Get A Girl's Phone Number

By: Louis Varca

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Wondering how to get a girl's phone number is not uncommon for men. Learning how to get a girl's phone number is a simple matter of learning how to act and what to say. Women typically make a decision of whom they give their phone number to based on your actions and words. Learning how to get a girl's phone number means learning how to show a woman that you are genuinely interested in here. Women will often give their phone number to a man who appears respectful and genuinely interested in them.

  1. Approach the girl. Approach the girl whose phone number you wish to obtain. Make solid eye contact with the girl. Never look down at your feet nor her feet and keep your eyes focused on her eyes. Avoid looking at the girls chest area as this is considered very disrespectful.
  2. Introduce yourself. Introduce yourself in a very polite and proper fashion. Tell the girl your first name and continue to make eye contact. Consider telling the girl something that emphasizes you are pleased to meet her.
  3. Read the signs. Read the signs and allow her a moment to provide you with her name. When the girl does not respond with her name, ask her politely. Read her eyes and her body movement to determine if she is comfortable or uncomfortable.
  4. Ask for her number. Address the girl by her first name which you obtained in step three. Politely ask her for her phone number. Avoid acting shy or nervous, women look for confidence.
  5. Close the conversation. Close the conversation by being very formal and avoid any tacky or worn out lines. Compliment her in a very generic and polite manner and then close the conversation. Avoid making any rude comments, do not act informal or "check her out" when you are walking away.

Tips:

  • When you are rejected by a girl do not push the subject to get her phone number, no usually means no.
     
Posted on: Aug. 25, 2010