Knowing how to get her to fulfill your schoolgirl fantasy is a process often worth the effort for the male seeking his special night. Sometimes, women are not immediately willing to try new sex play of various types. It falls on the shoulders of the male then to convince her that it is a viable option for sexual play. Use this presented strategy to influence your partner to play the role of your dreams.
- Talk to your partner. The first step in getting her to fulfill your schoolgirl fantasy is to talk to her about sex in general. Simply coming out and telling her that you want her to dress like a little girl may creep her out. Go slowly. Discuss each others turn-offs and on and assure her that you in no way are turned on by little girls. Introduce into the conversation that you enjoy role playing during sex. Lightly touch on the schoolgirl fantasy as a "so naughty" fantasy of yours.
- Be willing to fulfill her fantasy. Often getting her to fulfill your schoolgirl fantasy is a matter of give and take. Find out one of her fantasies and offer to trade hers for yours. When she asks what yours is, let her know you want to play the teacher while she plays the student. If she balks, discuss how it's only pretend, and reassure her that you have no attraction to children.
- Buy her the outfit. The next step in getting her to fulfill your schoolgirl fantasy is to buy her the outfit. Ask her to try it on in a non-sexual situation. While she is wearing it, do not approach her sexually, but let her know how cute and beautiful she looks.
- Go for it. The final step in getting her to fulfill your schoolgirl fantasy is to ask for the role playing to take place. For the slightly reluctant, begin foreplay first, then ask her to put on the costume you purchased for her. In her aroused state, she will be much more willing to play the naughty little girl.