How to Get Her to Notice You

Learning how to get a woman to notice you is one of the most important aspects of dating. Ultimately, if you can't catch someone's eye, they probably aren't going to want to date you. Some men use corny pick-up lines to get women to notice them, and some have their own tricks of the trade. Here are just a few tips to get her to notice you:

  1. Smile – This one is a no-brainer, really. Try to always have a smile on your face, because you never know who is looking your way. Smiling can increase someone's attractiveness. It doesn't have to be a full-on grin, just make sure you look approachable. 
  2. Confidence – Women are very attracted to confident men. If you like her, don't be shy; have the confidence to talk to her. If you aren't a very confident person, you can trick yourself into becoming one. Confidence is one attribute that women notice instantly, so get in the habit of becoming more confident.
  3. Appearance – Try to look your best. Make sure you're clean, shaven, and well-groomed before the possibility of meeting women. You don't need to look perfect, just look pulled-together and hygienic. 
  4. Laughter – Now that you've caught her eye, it's time to talk to her. When in doubt, make her laugh. The key to a woman's heart lies in the ability to make her laugh. Not a comedian? No problem, just be yourself. An engaging conversation that makes a woman laugh is a great way to get her to notice you.

As you can see, it doesn't take a lot of effort to get women to notice you. A few simple tweaks to your current routine will really make a difference. Give these tips a try the next time you see a fine lady and want her to notice you. Good luck!



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