How To Get Her

Here are some tips on how to get her to be yours. You have to find ways to stand out above the rest. Not by being arrogant and selfish, but by acting sincere and confident. The secret to getting her to be yours is by being yourself. Don’t try to be something or someone you are not, you will receive a negative response from her. Honesty is always the best policy. If she catches you slipping up telling her a lie, you can bet things will end before they get a chance to begin.

  1. Let her know you have feelings for her. Don’t pour your heart out to her. She may feel you would be clingy if the two of you really started dating. In a subtle way, just let her know you would like to be more then friends and see if she bites. If you lay it on to thick you may leave the door wide open to get used; she'll never be yours then.

  2. Be respectful of her. It’s okay to be playful, just don’t call her something she might feel is disrespectful. Please do not tell another guy the two of you are together to keep another guy away. If she finds out you might as well look for another girl to be yours. Being too aggressive can be a turn off.

  3. Take the time to get to know her. Show real interest in her. Ask what she likes to do for fun. Find out what the two of you have in common. It’s true opposite do attract, but if the two of you are totally different or too much alike; there might be problems. It would be a good idea to try and find out if you and her would be butting heads or meshing together.

  4. Don’t try to deceive her. Don’t try to impress her by telling her things about you that aren’t true. If you get her to be yours, you don’t want those lies to come back and bite you on the butt. You don't want to start off a new relationship with lies. You shouldn’t want her to be yours if you have to be dishonest with her.

  5. Show her what a great guy you are. If you have a great personality let it shine. You may feel lucky if you get her to be yours, but show her how lucky she would be to have you in her life.

  6. Ask her out on a date. Don’t take her somewhere you want to go, but somewhere you both want to go. Taking her feelings into consideration when planning a date, would work in your favor.

  7. Show her you can be silly and serious. She will want a fun loving guy who knows how to have a good time. She will also want a guy who knows how to be serious when the occasion calls for it. Let her see how diverse you can be.





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