How To Get Intimate With Friends
Wondering how to get intimate with friends usually starts after a long friendship or a long bout of drinking. It is a fickle topic. On one hand you two already know the best and worst things about each other. This can make the transition from friendship to lovers seem logical. But on the other hand, you may just feel really, really awkward the next morning. And worse yet, there goes your friend. The Hollywood version of the social upgrade works out much better than morning after reality but hell, you never know.
To get intimate with friends, you may need:
- The gift of gab
- Road trip
- Booze. Booze has helped many people get intimate with friends, furniture, pets or ex-wives. Apparently, we are all repressed lustful creatures just waiting for an excuse to get dirty. While this is often the quickest way to transition friends into lovers, it also has many drawbacks. The biggest drawback is the morning after when alcohol is conveniently blamed for the situation. If the friend you want to sleep with is worth it, you might wish to look for other options besides being drunk. Historically speaking though, this is usually where friends make the leap into intimacy.
- The long conversation. One of the nicest and most boring methods to get intimate with friends is the long conversation. That certain conversation that never goes anywhere but is always around at the end of the night. The thing about the long conversation is one of these days you will just have to say what you want. Chicks that love bad boys are intrigued by the long conversation only because it is foreign to them. For this one to work, one day you will have to lay out all the cards on the table. Or better yet, act.
- Travel. Traveling is another way to get intimate with friends. The first trip couples take together usually brings out all the bad stuff like how different your date looks without makeup or that she snores like a man. In other words, all the annoying things crop up. But friends expect this because they already know you like kimchee garlic fries and take more time than a woman in the bathroom. But while traveling, you take a little booze; the long conversation and you can make things happen. You will probably even begin to act like a couple on the trip and share a bed for more than just screwing. But don’t get your hopes up. Much like a blurry night of bumps and shots, the real test is after everyone goes home, passes out and showers. But if you get asked over for a meal to continue the intimacy, you are totally in.