How To Get Multiple Orgasms Through Masturbation

By: Twynna Elpmertz

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Learning how to get multiple orgasms through masturbation is as simple as learning more about the way your body works and practicing. Whether you’re trying to become a better lover for your lady or just like the thought of being able to come more than once, you will achieve a deeper understanding of your body and more control over your pleasure.

  1. Kegel exercises. When it comes to your genitals, your Kegel muscles are who is in control. Not only do they control urination, they also control ejaculation and orgasm so strengthening them will help you last longer, have more control over when you ejaculate and allow you to have multiple orgasms. To work your Kegels, just squeeze the muscle that controls urination throughout the day, every day. You can flex your Kegels while driving or watching TV. The key is to keep it up.
  2. Learn how to stop. One of the things we love most about orgasms is how they take over our minds and carry us away. For a man to achieve multiple orgasms, he needs to be able to recognize the moment right before he can no longer stop himself from coming. Most men feel a tingling sensation right before they reach this point of no return. Practice masturbating until you reach that point and then stopping. This will also give you greater control over when you come during sex.
  3. Orgasm versus ejaculation. The trick for men trying for multiple orgasms is to separate ejaculation from orgasm. While they almost always happen together, they are in fact separate processes. To come multiple times, a man needs to be able to tell the difference between his orgasm and his ejaculation and, ultimately, stop himself from ejaculation while coming. This way, he’ll be able to come again and again until he decides he wants to ejaculate. While masturbating, study carefully what it feels like throughout your body and mind when you are close to coming. Knowing the details of your pleasure will give you the insight you need to orgasm without ejaculating.
Posted on: Nov. 12, 2010