How To Get Your Ex Back Fast

By: Renata Johnson

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Thinking about how to get your ex back fast is one of those things that can wake you up in the middle of the night. The thoughts can torment your every waking moment. If you really want your ex back and you are determined to have them in your life, then there are steps to take to get what you want. It just takes a little work and whole lot of reverse psychology. Your ex will never know what hit them. You will have the pleasure of gloating to yourself while being wrapped up in her arms.

  1. Determine what broke you and your ex up in the first place. This is a very important factor toward how to get your ex back. If your ex wanted green soap and you bought blue, this is the time to go and grab that green bar of soap off the store shelf. But seriously, take into consideration her feelings and whether or not you are willing to compromise on meeting her request halfway.
  2. Change your wardrobe and appearance. Make sure you have fun before getting back with your ex. Turn up the heat by getting a new human play toy. If you have a good friend that will let you use them for a week, you want to flaunt your new friend around for a few weeks. Show up at local hangouts where you know your ex will be. You want to make your ex feel as if you are over them and moving forward with bigger and better things. Your ex will not like this at all, so be prepared for a few late night hang up calls, but remember your ultimate goal is to get your ex back.
  3. Write a letter. No, not to your ex, but to yourself. You can do it or have someone you trust that will never spill your secret. This letter will find its way to your ex lovers place of residency. When your ex calls about the letter and they will, have your lie straight and ready to spill out. The letter needs to look very professional and should state time is of the essence in responding. You could make it a financial reward letter, but it has to look believable. The object is to get your ex to your place. More than likely by now, your ex has been looking for a way to be in your presence once again anyway. You can be almost reassured since the first time they saw you out having a good time without them, you have been the only thing they could think about. Get your ex to agree to bring the letter over. You know what buttons to push once you have your ex in your presence. Don’t push to hard, or you will chance them away. You want to flirt and be very obvious with what you want and what you desire to have once again.
  4. Seduce your ex. Now that you have the fly in the parlor so to speak, it is up to you to weave them in and seduce into being yours again. Say all the things you know your ex will like to hear. Make her feel at home and comfortable. Do not let her rush away. If they leave and you have not made any play to win them back, you may not see your ex come through your door again. So, give it all you got!
Posted on: Oct. 15, 2010