How To Give The Best Oral Sex
It takes time and diligence to learn how to give the best oral sex to your lady. You’ll have to discover her personal idiosyncrasies and preferences, but first take a read through the basic tips below. Master these pointers and your partner will surely be asking for more.
- Prepare the territory. Foreplay is not all about the physical. Set the mood and heat up the moment by starting with compliments or dirty talk. Building up the sexual tension in this way will arouse her and prepare her body for oral sex. At this point, she’ll be asking to be subjugated. Without this step, you’ll spend much more time warming up than normal.
- Train the tongue. Your tongue is the protagonist in this story as the deliverer of spine-chilling sensations. Don’t forget that the tongue is a muscle! As with any other muscle in your body, you have to train it. Yes, oral sex is a workout too. Practice by trying to reach your chin with your tongue. Now try to reach the tip of your nose. You can also practice moving your tongue in a snakelike motion. A final exercise you can try is to use your tongue to flick a ball-shaped candy around your mouth.
- Tongue inspection. It’s time to initiate physical contact with the female. Place yourself in a comfortable position so that you don’t tire easily. Oral sex can take longer than you imagine depending on your skills and how ready the woman’s body is so be ready to change positions if you need to. Imagine that you are a police officer doing an inspection--cover every sensitive part of her erogenous zone. If you find that there’s a certain area or tongue move that really makes her tingle, then congratulate yourself because you’re on the correct path!
- Use your fingers. If you need to give your tongue a rest, you can complement the oral sex session with your fingers. She may even lust for your tongue again. You can also try giving oral sex and inserting your fingers in her vagina at the same time. Make sure you cut your nails so that you don’t damage any sensitive tissues inside the vagina. If she doesn’t really seem that into fingering, get back into position and focus on the oral sex instead. With time and practice, you’ll know how to make the switch smooth and unnoticeable.