How To Give An Erotic Oil Massage
Prepare for an enjoyable evening when you learn how to give an erotic oil massage. The key to giving an erotic oil massage is the perfect combination of four things. You need to know a few basic massaging techniques. You need to have a basic understanding of her most erogenous of zones. You need to be very, very creative. Finally, the most important element involved in giving an erotic oil massage is your ability to effectively communicate with your lover. The oil is actually the least important element to giving an erotic oil massage and you'll see why. Let's get it going. Let's give that perfect erotic oil massage.
- The initiation. Everyone loves massages so, it's easy to get a massage going. At the end of a week, everyone's a little tense. If you're hanging out with your lady friend, just rub her shoulders. When she responds favorably to your touch, give her quick yet thorough shoulder massage. Be firm with your grip, but don't grip her too hard. Communication is the key. While rubbing her shoulders whisper in her ear and ask if she likes it. You may even want to seductively bite her ear or kiss her neck while hooking up the shoulders. A good shoulder rub is like crack to a drug fiend. Add the seductive element to it and she'll be putty. Trust us, she'll like it.
- Going further. This is so easy it's almost criminal. Ask her if she wants more. She's not going to say no. Tell her you want to do her entire back. Or, if you guys are on that level, tell her you want to give her the full body hook up. If you've rubbed her shoulders the right way she'll definitely be game. Giving an erotic oil massage is within your grasp.
- It's all about her. You're not there to try to butter her up for sex. You're there to get her fully relaxed. Once she's agreed to let you rub her down, ask her lay on her stomach and to get comfortable on the bed or wherever... Really doesn't matter. Straddle her. Don't use too much oil. You want just enough to lightly coat your hands. If you need more you can simply add some. Rub your hands together to generate a little heat. Start out by rubbing her neck and shoulders. While gripping her shoulders use your thumbs to rub her in a circular motion. Use the same technique for the back of her neck. Don't be afraid to add some more of that sensual kissing on her sensitive areas. Hell, even whispering to her in her ears can turn her on. You have to make it an erotic oil massage. Be thorough.
- Down her back and further. Your main goal is to loosen her up while simultaneously getting her hot. Focus on rubbing her back firmly and alternating with sweeping light touches the length of her back. Don't forget that thumb technique described earlier. The whole time you should be planting kisses and licking places that you know turn her on. Here's a hint, pay special attention to the small of her back right above where her butt begins. Don't be afraid to get in there. Who cares if you get oil all over you. As a matter of fact you want to get oil all over the place.
- Her legs. Even if you don't know massages, you have to know that the thighs are a major erogenous zone. Pay special attention to the folds under her butt cheeks and the areas close to her vaginal area. A combination of firm squeezes, rubs and light kissing and licking work very well. Don't directly stimulate her. You won't have to. Take a break from all of the secondary stimulation by rubbing her calfs and feet. For her feet focus on the balls her arch and her heel. Be creative freaky with your erotic oil massage.
- In the end. The full body erotic oil massage requires you do the front as well. Remember not to directly stimulate the obvious areas. Just focus on the zones. When you guys are done, your night will just be beginning.