How To Give An Erotic Sex Massage

Learning how to give an erotic massage can add a much-needed spice to a dull, boring relationship. Even if you’re not experienced with giving massages, you can quickly learn to become a professional at giving erotic massages. If you’re ready, than let’s take a look at what you’ll need to give an erotic massage.

To give an erotic massage, you’ll need the following items:

  • A willing partner
  • Warming lubricant
  • Patience
  • Place to give a massage
  1. My partner. The first step to giving an erotic massage is having a willing partner. Without a willing partner, it’ll be impossible to give your partner a great, erotic massage. An erotic massage requires an intimacy between both partners and a mutual-understanding of each other’s desires. An erotic massage may lead to something more fulfilling or even be a part of actual foreplay, so make sure that your partner is aware of this by discussing your needs with each other.
  2. Choose the right stuff. The next step to giving an erotic massage is choosing the right lubricant to use on your partner’s back. The lubricant can make all the difference when it comes to giving an erotic massage. Make sure that you choose a lubricant that is warming to the touch; it’ll make your partner’s experience much more memorable. One warming jelly that works great for massages is KY Jelly or another similar warming product.
  3. Down to business. Once you and your partner are ready, begin by having your partner strip off any of their garments. Next, ask your partner to lay as flat as they can on their stomach. A great place to give an erotic massage is either a bed or a large couch. Next, pour some warming lubricant down their spine and begin to massage the lubricant into their skin. Work your way quickly up to your partner’s shoulders, than slowly work your way down their back focusing on their tight muscles, spine, etc. Your partner will love your erotic massage and you’ll love where it leads to! Don’t be afraid to massage every inch of your partner’s back, and if they’re willing, work your way down their legs, buttocks, etc.

While each erotic massage may not lead to sex, this doesn’t mean that you should be disappointed if it doesn’t. Giving an erotic massage is a great way to share intimacy with your partner that enriches the rest of your love life!