How To Give A Female An Orgasm During Intercourse

If you love women, you probably want to know how to give a female an orgasm during intercourse. The good news is women can have orgasms in many ways. The bad news is the woman you’re with may not be able to tell you how to get her there. In fact, if she’s shy or inexperienced, she may have no guidance or advice for you at all. Here’s how to find the likely spots on your own so all she’ll have to say is "Yes!"

1. Know the choices. For men, getting an orgasm is a true-false question; either they do or they don’t. For women, though, it’s multiple choice. Some women are happily capable of multiple orgasms. The occasional lucky woman is capable of multiple, multiple orgasms, only stopping when she reaches exhaustion (or you do). Other women will be quite satisfied with a single orgasm. Other women don’t experience orgasm at all, at least not the build-and-release kind we think of as a traditional orgasm. Chances are the woman you’re with already knows which type she is. If not, it’ll be fun finding out. 

2. Know the territory. Women are capable of at least three different kinds of orgasm. The most well-known is the vaginal orgasm that, obviously, comes from stimulation of the vagina. This doesn’t always mean penetration; some women enjoy external play and it’s even possible to give a female an orgasm this way. The clitoris can produce entertaining orgasms of an entirely different kind. Then there’s the ever-popular G-spot orgasm. Every woman is different, so mix and match the possible combinations until you find one that drives your lover right up the wall. 

3. Know the G-spot. Locate the G-spot successfully and you’ll always be able to make new friends. To find the G-spot you’ll want to use your hand. Make sure your hands are clean and your nails are trimmed. Reach up inside her, past the clitoris, and make a come-hither gesture with your fingers. When you find the G-spot, you’ll both know immediately from her reaction. When you know you’ve got it, memorize that location so you can find it again with or without your hand.

4. Know the clitoris. When stimulating the clitoris remember that a little goes a long way. A light touch is best; the super-sensitive clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings. When going for the clitoral orgasm, making small circles around it may be better than touching it directly. (Hint: A tongue, having no bones, is a much lighter touch than a finger.)

5. Know your partner. If your goal is to give a female an orgasm during intercourse--and why shouldn’t it be?--take the time to find out what she likes and doesn’t like. If she has difficulty achieving orgasm, try alternating your focus between stimulating the G-spot and the clitoris. Whatever approach you take, be patient, be considerate and be romantic. All women are different, but they all love to be romanced. Find out what “romance” means to her and you’ll be on your way to giving her great orgasms.