How To Give A Female An Orgasm
You might think it's an impossible journey to learn how to give a female an orgasm. You run into so many road blocks, like women who can't have orgasms, women who want to have fast sex and don't care about the orgasm and women who fake orgasms. The hurdles go on and on, and it's a wonder any guy can manage to have his chick orgasm. While every woman's body is different, you do have a few standard options to see whether you can get your lady friend to have as good of a time in the sack as you do.
- Start by communicating with your partner. While you probably aren't going to have in-depth sex discussions with a one night stand, it's worthwhile to talk with the chicks you're on longer term relationships with. You can find out their personal preferences. Whatever you do, don't get jealous about them talking about prior sexual encounters with other men. That's not going to help you get anywhere and will just get your lady friend to shut down on you. Besides, you think she'd be as good at giving blowjobs if you were her first? Didn't think so!
Make sure she's wet prior to vaginal intercourse. Some women are naturally dry and others might need some time to get 'revved up'. There's nothing more unpleasant than getting in without proper lubrication, and you're running the risk of her completely not enjoying it or even physical damage. If she can't get wet enough naturally, don't make her feel bad. Invest in a nice quality water-soluable lubrication to help her out.
Take your time on foreplay. While you might want to get to the main event, most women appreciate the warm-up time. Some ladies can't just get switched on and turned on instantly, they have a bit of build-up before they go to the big-O.
Add variety to your routines. You might have a problem giving a woman an orgasm if you're doing the same thing every time. Predictable is boring, whether you're doing the same things in foreplay or sex. Try different positions or make use of interesting objects during foreplay, like ice cubes or phallic vegetables.
- Introduce sex toys in the bedroom. Many women own or would like to use sex toys during sex, but way too many men are insecure about being replaced by a plastic dick. Get over it and be the one to bring it up. Until your cock can vibrate, chances are the additional sensations and unique shapes will help bring her to orgasm.