How To Give Her An Orgasm With Your Fingers
You might not think that fingering should be a particularly large part of your sexual knowledge, but if you know how to give her an orgasm with your fingers you're well on your way to having many adoring women follow in your footsteps. You have to put plenty of thought and time into foreplay and fingering is something you can do at any time. You don't have to pull out sex toys or crazy contraptions and get lots of set up time, plus if she's a skirt-wearer you can even manage it in public for a hot thrill.
- Watch her masturbate. If you and your lady are comfortable enough with each other to watch some masturbation sessions (some chicks are weird about it), ask her to show you her technique. Since every woman can be different in the pleasure department it's worth it to see which areas she's touching, Pay particular attention whether she's going for vaginal stimulation or clitoral stimulation. Or, if you're lucky, maybe she's going straight for the ass like a good kinky chick.
- Get in a position where you can see everything you're doing. While it might be hot to rub all over her while you're spooning or cuddling, you aren't going to be able to gauge her reactions if you can't see the exact spots you're hitting. Have her lay down and go in between her legs, spread as wide as you can manage.
- Try to keep track of reactions. If she's moaning like a banshee when you rub a particular spot, make sure to remember that spot to come back to later. There can be a 'too much of a good thing' effect so don't stop on the first great spot that you manage to find. Vary your motions from strokes to thrusts to gentle rubbing to see which she prefers.