How To Give A Nude Sensual Massage
Reasons to learn how to give a nude sensual massage go farther than you might think. "On the day of our birth, we entered the world with an intense touch hunger." Robert W. Hatfield, PhD. says this in his paper, "Touch and Human Sexuality." He goes on to prove that there is nothing humans crave more in the world than affectionate touch, and if we can get enough of it, there's a good chance we will also be happy. Here's how to give a nude sensual massage and engage all your senses.
One of the best ways to feed "touch hunger" is through sensual massage. Massage therapy has proven benefits and is beginning to be respected by both the scientific and medical communities. Linking sex and touch for health isn't something that has been given as much attention. If you want to increase happiness through touch, though, giving and receiving sensual massage is something that can bring relaxation, satisfaction, and improved health, as well as the euphoria you usually get from sex.
- Get ready. To give a nude sensual massage, first ready yourself and your partner. Make a ritual of taking off your clothing, preparing your space, and choosing the best accompaniments. Make this a feast for the senses. Put on some low music and turn the lights down. Better yet, open the windows and listen to the night's orchestra or the pounding of the rain. Lay down with your lover and begin to touch.
- Take turns. As you touch each other, take turns exploring each other's bodies. Lull your lover with long, soft strokes, spirals, and circles. Experiment with what feels good to you. Does it also feel good to her? Often, it will. Don't be afraid to ask questions or to explore with your eyes, hands, and mouth. Pay attention to areas of her body that aren't usually erogenous zones. Find out if your lover can be turned on by a kiss behind the knee or pressure in the middle of her back.
- Use oils, lotions, and lubricants. Try olive, flax, or palm oil; they are safe for use inside and outside the body. Try water-based, flavored, and scented lubricants. Take your time. Slide your bodies together, touching as much skin as you can all at once. Use this time as an exploration, and her body as a playground. Let her teach you things you didn't know about your own body. The massage may lead to one or more orgasms for each of you, but don't let that be your goal. Come to the experience with the desire to saturate your senses with your partner there to guide you.
- Finish slowly. End the massage with a long shower or bath. Put some orange or lemon essential oil in the water to re-awaken your body and mind. Leave the lights off as you return gently to the real world. Plan on revisiting your sensual playground as often as you like.