How To Give A Sexual Massage
Are you ready to learn how to give a sexual massage? You don't need to be a masseuse or go to school for months in order to learn how to help your lady relax and sink into a sultry mood.
Things you will need to give a sexual massage:
- massage oil
- towels (a hand towel and several large bath towels)
- soft music
- Set the mood. The first thing you want to do when you give a sexual massage is set the mood. Dim the lights. Play soft music in the background and make sure the candles are lit. Have a comfortable place, either on the bed or floor, for your partner to lay on. Keep several towels handy in case the massage oil spills and also for your lover to wrap herself in when you're through.
- Get ready. Have your girl strip to her birthday suit and lay down as you begin to give a sexual massage. You should strip, too, or she will feel uncomfortable. After all, this is about being sexy and raising passion between you. Pour a little bit of oil into your palms and rub them together until both your hands and the oil are warm. Talk softly, if at all. Tell your girl to relax and enjoy.
- Start slow. Start to give a sexual massage slowly. You want to begin with soft, small strokes. Preferably, you will have your partner lie on her stomach. There's no reason to rush into sex. Let your girl melt! Rub her back. Give her shoulders a nice massage as if you were kneading dough. Then, move down her back in longer but gentle strokes. If you need to apply more oil, do so. Be sure to warm it up, however! Move to her butt. Give her buttocks gentle squeezes and kneads. Then massage her legs. Be careful because some women have ticklish spots on their legs. If you make her squirmy, you've backtracked against your purpose. Once you've massaged her legs, move to her feet. Whatever you do, stay away from her crotch. It's not time to touch her genitals.
Use sexy strokes. If you're confident with a sexual massage thus far, have your girl turn over. Now she's facing you. Encourage her to close her eyes. You want her to fully enjoy the moment. Begin with her feet and work your way up. Legs and tummies can be ticklish, so back off if she flinches or squirms. When she moans, repeat what you're doing. As you travel up her legs and over her belly, you can begin massaging her breasts. This is where the sexual part comes in. If you've performed the sexual massage correctly, she will welcome your advances. Move to her genitals when you're ready. Remember not to hurry.
- Repeat the magic. As the passion builds between you, repeat the magic. You and your girl will enjoy giving a sexual massage to each other. Just like sex, a massage is about increasing tension. It should always be enjoyable and feel good. Never rub too deeply. If your lady asks you to stop giving her a sexual massage, respect what she says. Most women enjoy being touched and if you begin in non-sexual ways, they are more likely to respond to having sex later.
Posted on: Nov. 02, 2010