How To Give A Tantric Erotic Massage
To fully learn how to give a Tantric Erotic Massage, you first need to completely understand what it is. Tantric Erotic massage is about the power of touch. It does not have to lead to sex although in many cases it does. It is about two people becoming closer through the power of tender touching and caressing. The focus is supposed to be on the act of two joining together as one, feeling you body melt into each other's. It is to be sensual, and calm, and totally relax your body.
Before You Start:
- Take away any stress or expectations by letting your girlfriend know before you start that you do not expect sex.
- Make sure you have trimmed your nails so as not to scratch your girlfriend.
- Set the mood. Put on soft music or nature sounds. Use candles for lighting. Make sure that it is warm enough in the room so that you are both comfortable.
- Fill a warm bath. You may want to add some rose petals for an extra touch. Lead her to the bath where you will undress her and help her into the tub. You will then wash your girlfriend gently and slowly. Wash her hair and gently massage her scalp. Help her out of the tub where you will gently dry her off starting at her neck and slowly work your way down.
- Before you start the massage on her body, be sure to remember any areas that may hurt or are ticklish and be sure to stay away from these areas.
- Lead your girlfriend to either a bed or an area you have made on the floor that has a lot of pillows for the comfort of both of you.
- Position yourself at her head. Put a few drops of warmed oil onto your hand and gently massage her face rubbing along her forehead and cheeks. Ask her to keep her eyes closed during the process to further relax her. Very easily rub along her jaw line and toward the ears. Do not apply pressure here.
- Move to her side. Take her hand into yours. While holding her hand in yours stroke up her hand, to her arm working up to her shoulder. Rub along her shoulder. Slowly work your way back down but on the back side of the arm this time. Do this a few times. Then go the her other side and do the exact same thing on that arm as well.
- With your clothes off straddle her. At this time you can chose for her to lie either on her back or on her stomach. Move over her so your hands are in an outreached position over her body and your body is making contact with hers. in a very slow motion rub your bodies together. Bring yourself back to a sitting position over her and rub your hands over her entire body. Massage her buttocks if she is on her stomach, or her breast if she is on her back. You can also with the palm of your hand rub over her vagina. Let your entire hand cross over her slowly and lightly. The again stretch out over top of her.
- At this point you may chose to penetrate her if she wants you to. If you do chose to enter her, she is still to remain still and do no work at all. You are also to continue to outstretch over her while rubbing your bodies together. This is not about a rush to achieve orgasm, it is about achieving a powerful sense of togetherness. Simply feeling you inside of her will send wave through her entire body as you massage her.
- Have fun with this. You can vary it in any way you like. Just remember the most important thing is to remain calm and relaxed and fell a connection.