How Good Are You In Bed?

By: Ergopotamo

Break Studios Contributing Writer

How good are you in bed? For most guys, this is an important aspect of their sex lives. Knowing that they fully please their partners in bed could be one of their biggest achievements, but how can you be sure? Here, we give you some signs so that you can determine how good you are in bed.

  1. Her eyes are shining, and she’s smiling. These two expressions are perfect signs of good performance in bed. They can also be signs of an orgasm. Eyes are the windows to the soul. You can see through them and find out if your girlfriend has really enjoyed the sexual experience, so if your partner suddenly has shiny, starry eyes then you’ve made it!
  2. You don’t need to talk that much. When two people have a special connection, they don’t need to talk that much before sex. Sexy and provocative eye contact in bed is the key. Experts in bed know how to create the perfect environment to seduce a girl even without talking.
  3. You’re willing to try new things. A good lover has an open mind and likes to have new sexual experiences. Don’t panic! This doesn’t mean you have to act like a porn star. Erotic games are more ordinary than you might imagine. You can also use sexy underwear or even sex toys to help you please your partner. Ladies love games!
  4. She doesn’t scream too much. It’s generally thought that women scream a lot when they reach orgasm or when they’re really turned on, but this is actually just a movie myth. Real women don’t scream that much; if they do, they’re probably faking it. If your girlfriend screams all the time, maybe she’s not having as much fun as you are. Don’t worry! Just find out what she really likes. She’ll be happy to tell you.
  5. You know what to do. A good lover always knows what to do. Sometimes it’s uncomfortable for ladies to express what they desire, especially during intercourse. It will always be better for you to surprise her with some role-playing games, touch new parts of her body, or even try different sex positions. However, remember to ask your partner first if you’re thinking of something risky or potentially harmful like anal sex or a threesome. If you already knew this, consider yourself an expert.
  6. She calls you back. If it’s the first time you’ve had sex with someone and you’re not sure exactly how things went, then a callback is the perfect answer. If your date calls you back, it means that she enjoyed the experience so much that she wants to do it again. Congratulations! You’re a Casanova.

If you’re familiar with one or more of these signs, you don’t have to worry about anything. If you aren’t, remember that it’s not too late to learn. Finally, keep in mind that the best lover is one who thinks about pleasing his partner instead of himself and is willing to make love, not just have sex.

Posted on: Dec. 01, 2010