How To Have A Better Orgasm

Once you have been married for a while you may want to figure out how to have a better orgasm like you did when you were first married. To have a batter orgasm you may just need a change of pace. Something as simple as a new location for sex or role playing can lead to a sex life with a better orgasm.

1. One of the first steps to a better orgasm is to know your own body and what pleases you. If need be take matters into your own hands and feel your way around until you find that “oh my god” spot. Then when it is his turn don’t be afraid to give him a little direction in finding it again so you have a better orgasm. As much as we think men should be able to read our minds, they can’t. We need to tell them or show them exactly what pushes our buttons.
2. Once you have found your pleasure points, try something new to have a better orgasm. A new location, a new position, or even a new fantasy role play. Something that is out of the ordinary may be just what you need to kick start your libido and put you on your way to a better orgasm.
3. Take your time and breathe. Instead of letting yourself have an orgasm as soon as you feel it coming on, relax a bit and let the sensations build. The more your body craves the release the more explosive of an orgasm you will have. When most women are about to have an orgasm they forget to breathe. Breathing along with your partner can lead to a bigger and better orgasm.
4. Focus on your pleasure. In today’s world it is much harder for a woman to relax and just enjoy them moment. With so many things going on in our daily lives it is hard to forget about everything else and focus solely on sexual pleasure and a better orgasm; however, you need to clear your head to be able to enjoy the things that are happening to your body.