How To Have A Cyber Sex Conversation

By: jorgmorg

Break Studios Contributing Writer

It’s just as important to learn how to have a cyber sex conversation as it is to learn how to please a woman in bed. Your anonymous internet sex partner will be looking for someone experienced, so learn how to pleasure her with the tips below. Let your imagination run wild and have an engaging cyber sex conversation.

To have a cyber sex conversation, you will need:

  • Computer
  • Webcam
  • Microphone
  • Speakers or headphones 
  1. Find a partner. There are various websites out there where you can meet that random someone with whom you can share this erotic experience. The most anonymous way to meet someone is through a video chat website. Otherwise, you can make it more personal by striking up a conversation with someone in a chat room or message board. Once you have a relationship going, suggest a cyber sex date via an instant messaging program.
  2. Make the connection. Once you’re connected either through a website or through an instant messaging program, create a private place for only you and her. Now, turn on your respective webcams and make sure that both of your microphones are working properly. You should both be able to hear each other and easily have a conversation. For extra privacy, you might want to have headphones on so that your neighbors can’t hear her moans and groans.
  3. Get it started. Always start by complimenting her upon first glimpse of her body and the sexy clothes that she’s presumably prepared for the occasion. Encourage her to initiate a sexual fantasy that she has. Alternate between speaking. She’ll share what she’s imagining, and then you can add to the story. Think of some erotic stories or movies that you’ve read or seen for inspiration.
  4. Let yourself get carried away. The most erotic experiences are those that seem to be so sexually exciting that the two of you can’t seem to restrain yourselves. If you’re feeling aroused, let yourself feel it and act on that arousal. This may be expressed in actions such as breathing heavily, opening your mouth, closing your eyes, and pumping your chest out. The more turned on you seem, the more turned on she’ll be. You can even start removing articles of clothing or touching yourself. It’s especially tantalizing for women if you describe how you’re touching yourself and how you’re feeling when you touch yourself.
  5. Thank her. When you’ve both been completely satisfied, don’t forget to show your appreciation for the experience. Ending on good terms will be beneficial for your reputation as a top-notch cyber sex partner. Even if you don’t have another cyber sex conversation with the same woman, at least she’ll be saying good things about you so that you can easily secure your next partner.
Posted on: Dec. 15, 2010