How To Have Dominatrix Phone Sex

Many men find a release in being dominated by a powerful woman, which is why many people want to know how to have dominatrix phone sex. A dominatrix is a dominating woman who frequently subjects her clients to humiliation, sadomasochistic sex, and oftentimes spankings and whippings. A large number of men enjoy releasing power to a woman who knows how to have dominatrix phone sex as a form of sexual gratification. 

How to have dominatrix phone sex you will need:

  • A dominant personality
  • An uninhibited personality
  • A telephone
  • A whip or paddle
  1. Announce your authority. A dominatrix is not a caring person, or a woman that uses a sweet sultry voice. A dominatrix is a woman of authority, and she makes her authority known right away. Use a firm voice, and never ask the man for permission to do anything. From the moment dominatrix phone sex begins, the woman in charge should tell the man that she is the boss and inform him that he is to do whatever she tells him. She must insist upon his complete submission and he must verbally acknowledge this.
  2. Slave versus mistress. When you have dominatrix phone sex, it is important to establish roles at the beginning of the call. The man should be addressed as slave and the woman as mistress or madam. Another accepted title for the woman is Miss (insert name here). There are no pet names or terms of endearment for either participants during dominatrix phone sex. 
  3. Give orders. A woman cannot be shy and learn how to have dominatrix phone sex. She must be assertive and give orders regarding what she wants the man to do. Be bossy and command that he obey. This is what a man wants during dominatrix phone sex. He wants to be dominated. For example, she can say things such as, "Your mistress orders you to get on your knees!" Then, insist that he comply in a submissive manners, always answering the request with, "Yes mistress."
  4. Humiliate and degrade. A key component of dominatrix phone sex is humiliation. Obviously, you would never speak this way to a friend or even a stranger, but it is acceptable and desired during this type of roll play. Things that could include statements such as, "Lick the phone slave. I want to hear you lick the phone and tell me I'm your master." This, believe it or not, is a complete turn on for a man that is into being dominated by a woman. Don't hold back. Tell him to remove his clothing because he's not worthy of wearing clothes. 
  5. Punish. For most men, the climax of being dominated comes from some form of physical punishment. This typically involves spanking or whipping. To achieve this over the phone, you can use a paddle or whip and the mere sound of the tool hitting something can be enough for the man on the phone. Begin with light whipping and work your way up to hard, fast whips. Order the man on the phone to physically punish himself as you act it out. Be firm and don't ask him if it hurts. You don't care for this person!  Instead, tell him he deserves the spankings.

Learning how to have dominatrix phone sex may take some practice, but in the end remember that it as about role play. In most instances, if the dominatrix is not firm enough, the man will find a new woman that will control him the way he desires.

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