How To Have Erotic Phone Sex

Knowing how to have erotic phone sex is a good skill to have. This is especially the case if you are in a long distance relationship or just don't get to see your sweetheart as much as you would like. It's also just a fun way to spice up your relationship, especially if it's unexpected. The reason that it's important to incorporate erotic phone sex into a relationship is that women respond best to that. Erotic, sensual conversation is the way to get her juices flowing.

1. Read erotic literature.  There is a reason that women are into it. There is just as much sex, but a different way of talking about it. Erotic literature focuses on the touching and foreplay aspect of it.
2. Lower your voice.  Don't try to sound like Barry White, unless you actually do. However, take your voice down a notch or two as a lower voice tends to be better for phone sex.
3. Stretch out the conversation. The key to having erotic phone sex is to linger on each step, such as kissing and touching, and describe what you are doing and how it should feel. Use adjectives to describe parts of the body. Create a scene with your words. Don't just jump into the sex act.
4. While having erotic phone sex, keep her specific fantasies in mind. For example, if you know that she has a fantasy of being tied up, discuss the process of tieing her to your bedpost using silk scarves. Describe what else you would do with those scarves.
5. Tell her that you're masturbating and that you want her to do it with you. Describe what you are doing and feeling, and what you want her to do to herself. When you climax, tell her and ask her to try to climax at the same time, if possible.

Tip:

• If you start to have erotic phone sex with someone and she doesn't seem interested, stop right away.