How To Have First Date Sex
How to have first date sex is achievable, especially if the chemistry is sizzling between you two. You try to stay composed but the attraction is undeniable and you cannot hold out any longer. Learn how to get a woman in bed during your first meeting by following these steps.
Make sure the attraction goes both ways. Before you have first date sex, find out if this women likes you sexually or, yikes, only as a brother. Some women may flirt, and nothing comes out of it, or you might meet a woman who is too shy to let you know how she feels. If she likes you enough, she will be eager for the first date and will not ignore your calls regarding the upcoming hang out. She may send positive vibes, her eyes may glow when seeing you and light up if she finds you an interesting person.
- Once you're on the date, pay attention to her body language and your sixth sense. You can tell that she is digging you sexually without her uttering a word if there a spark in her eyes or she's sitting too close to you. Touching you gently on the arms or thighs shows she is comfortable and might want to get you aroused. Also, sitting upright in a seat with her chest sticking out may be a clear signal she wants you to notice her assets and that she may want you. Another way to tell is if how she's dressed and if she's showing you a little thigh while crossing her legs.
- Keep her comfortable. Some people who want sex use all kind of tactics—being too pushy or using the tried and true method of loosening her up with alcohol. Remember, you want the attraction to be mutual and not induced by alcohol so she feels secure and knows you are not a bad person if you want sex. Compliment her on her beauty, have a regular conversation and when the time is right, do some heavy flirting, followed by some heavy petting as that will mostly lead to sex.
- Go to a location where that isn’t normally first dates. Going to a museum or coffee shop is not a guarantee that you will have sex on the first date. Choose the place wisely, perhaps go to a club, or somewhere with less people. You also have the choice taking the woman to a place you are very familiar with, your home and plan a nice meal and sexy massage.