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How To Have Fun With Your Girlfriend

By: Lizz Shepherd

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Figuring out how to have fun with your girlfriend is an issue that comes up from time to time during the course of relationships. There may be times when it seems difficult to have fun with your girlfriend because you argue about activities or because you get into a rut when it's time to go out. Here are a few ways to start to have fun with your girlfriend again.

  1. Choose activities to do together that you both enjoy. If one of you is there just to humor the other, one of you will not have fun. This builds resentment and makes the activity less enjoyable. To have fun with your girlfriend, come up with a list of things that you both enjoy doing and spend time on those activities.

  2. Find new activities together. If neither of you has tried an activity before, you don't know whether it might be something that you will both enjoy. Try activities like pottery painting, fishing, target shooting, zip lining or any other activity that is new to both of you. Even if neither of you like the activities, you may have fun with your girlfriend just by complaining together or finding something new to make fun of.

  3. Schedule activities as well as relaxation time. Going out together is a good way to have fun with your girlfriend, but so is sitting around and doing nothing. Don't take on pressure to constantly schedule fun activities. This pressure can ruin the good time that you could be having. Spend some time simply relaxing together and some of that pressure will be alleviated. 

Posted on: Nov. 22, 2010