How To Have Good Foreplay

Knowing how to have good foreplay is an essential part of a healthy, satisfying sex life. Long before the sex act starts, foreplay sets the scene for the act to come and the overall quality of the sex. Explore all options and keep an open mind.

1. Talk to your partner. The first step in learning how to have good foreplay is to talk to your partner about their likes and dislikes. Knowing what turns on your lover and focusing the foreplay in that direction will lead to a more intense experience. Be open and honest when you have conversations. Prepare and ask your partner questions concerning their bodies, fantasies and erotic ideas.
2. Start early. Learning how to have good foreplay includes timing. Try a slow burn build-up by starting foreplay first thing in the morning. Before your partner leaves for work, or before you walk out the door, nibble an ear or kiss the neck and speak subtle sexy words. "Can't wait to see you again," or "When I see you again, I want to see more of you" are simply phrases that will set in motion long term foreplay. Call during the day and ask sexy, subtle questions such as "Does a massage sound good right now?," or give little hints as to what you have in mind for the night.
3. Slow your roll. Sometimes, knowing how to have good foreplay is as easy as slowing down the tempo. Take the time to play out all foreplay acts. A long massage or an extended session of gently touching increases the intensity of the coming act.
   
4. Get creative. The final instruction on how to have good foreplay deals with dropping taboos and getting out the toys and costumes. Try food, vibrators, oils and dress-up play. You might be surprised as to how intense the sex can be after a sexy dance from a lover.