How To Have Good Phone Sex

Figuring out how to have good phone sex can be difficult at first, even for people who are already skilled in the bedroom. Phone sex is a great way to relieve sexual frustration, and in some cases can be an excellent prelude to a wild night in the bedroom.

To have good phone sex, you will need:

• Time
• Patience
• A place with privacy and limited distractions
• Imagination

1. First off, don't approach the topic of phone sex straight on if you aren't sure what your partner thinks about it. Start the conversation as you would any other, then mention that you miss her. Tell her you've been thinking about the last time you two were together, and talk about what parts you liked best. Describe the way you were feeling, and what it was about her that got you so turned on. If she's a little reluctant, ask her leading questions, such as asking what about you turns her on, what did she like best about the last time you were together and so on. She should catch on pretty quickly what the phone call is leading to.
2. After the mood of the phone call has been set, be sure to be very descriptive with your words. You two aren't together, so your words are going to have to do all the work. Paint a picture of what exactly is going on in your mind, what you wish you were doing to her, and what you wish she was doing to you. Be descriptive about where you're touching yourself, and how you're imagining that it's her who's touching you.  
3. If you're just beginning with phone sex, it isn't recommended to begin with fantasies that don't fall in your usual spectrum. The first few times, keep the dialogue within your usual level of sexual prowess. As you and your partner becomes more accustomed to having phone sex, try getting a little friskier with the dialogue and see how your partner reacts. If trying out a new fantasy over the phone doesn't go well the first time, you can always try again later.
4. Don't be shy when you're about to climax. If possible, try to climax at the same time your partner does. If your climax comes before hers, continue the conversation until she finishes. She'll thank you for being so considerate.

In the end, there is no "right" way to have good phone sex. If you and your partner are consistently satisfied, then you're having good phone sex. The key thing is to make your partner feel sexy and desired. The phone sex that you have is limited by only your imagination.