How To Have A Great Orgasm

By: Dorothy Elijah

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Learning how to have a great orgasm can be a way to become more intimate with your lover. Don't you want your lover to say you're the best sex they've ever had? Becoming a great lover requires a lot of listening and patience on both sides. Luckily, its not completely impossible. Its something that even a novice can do. Here are several ways to have great sex and make sure your partner has a great orgasm.

  1. Most important thing to remember is that an adult film cannot be your gauge for what's good sex with your partner. Keep in mind these people are paid to have sex and not all of their orgasms are genuine. The best way to get sexual information comes from your partner.
  2. Communicating with your partner can make or break the deal. Communication is key to the sexual experience. Hot or cold? If your partner is very vocal then there are ways to talk it out. Pay attention to what they respond to the best. If you notice that they get excited or their breathing picks up during a certain point or move, then you're on the right path. If you notice you're losing them, try something else.
  3. If the G-spot is something that your aiming to hit then you should know that its located about 1-2 inches inside the vagina. Check the internet. Know this spot. Know it well. With the right attention to your lovers body, sex can be amazing. But make sure she's not hyper-sensitive before you start or else she'll be turned off.
  4. Last but not least if all else fails bring in the books. Books are an excellent source of information and can even serve as great inspiration. If you're not a book person then there are actually games out now that can prove to be fun and help you get along better with your partner.

These were only a couple of suggestions as to what you can do to have that great orgasm. Who knows that orgasm that you have always wanted might just be one game or book read away. If you want to try something new try playing a touching game to spice things up.

Posted on: Aug. 29, 2010