How To Have A Naughty Party
If you’re interested in indulging one of your fantasies of casual sex, you’ll want to know how to have a naughty party for you and your friends. If you’re someone who has trouble with logistics and party planning, have no fears. In some ways, planning a naughty party is actually easier than planning a regular party because the intentions and goals for the event are clear and communication is a must. Here are some tips to make your event a titillating success.
- Decide what you want. There are many different types of sex parties you can throw and knowing what it is you are hoping for is key. Not only will having a clear image help you plan, it’s also a must when inviting guests. You need to know that everyone at the party is on the same page so take some time to think about what you want. Sex parties, where the emphasis is having sex, are different than orgies, where the aim is for a group of people to have sex with each other casually. Sex parties usually involve less promiscuity in a similarly sexual atmosphere.
- Know your guests. In general, you are going to want your party to be an invite only affair. Once you know what it is you want from your party, you can start describing it to you friends and acquaintances to see if they’re interested. Make it clear that sex at this party will not be required and no one will be pressured into situations they are uncomfortable with. The key thing with invites is that you only end up with guests who you know are respectful and fun.
- Decorate and prepare. To get ready for you party, make sure there is plenty of comfy furniture in your play space. Couches are good and so are piles of pillows and blankets. Have drinks and light, simple snacks available, too. Mood lighting and appropriate music are musts. As the host, don’t forget to have plenty of lube and safe sex materials (condoms, dental dams, etc.) available to keep everyone safe and healthy.
- Get the party started. Despite its risque premise, your naughty party should begin like any other party, mingling, chatting, snacking. This will give guests a chance to all get to know each other and feel more relaxed. Once everyone has arrived, say a few words as the host about what expectations are inherent by participating in the party. For instance, most sex party hosts ask that at some point during any sexual exchange a very clear yes is given by both parties. It’s also not a bad idea to go around and have everyone introduce themselves if necessary. These precautions will make sure everyone feels safe and comfortable, is respected, and haves fun.