How To Have No Strings Attached Sex
If you're seeking how to have no strings attached sex, you're going to need a game plan. Too often, dudes go into it thinking with their junk and not with their head. If you're one of those guys, read on to get some strategy tips for adding some notches to your belt.
- Have the right mind set. If you're going to be having no strings attached sex, understand the concept. No strings attached. This means that you can't develop feelings and neither can your partner. Now, it's a demonstrated fact that females have a harder time with no strings attached sex than males, but that doesn't change the rules. No strings attached is no strings attached. If you find yourself developing feelings, be honest with your partner and pull out now (pun intended.) This will save you both a ton of drama. If your partner starts to develop feelings, remind them of the agreement.
- Be discreet. If you're comfortable with the idea of no strings attached sex, then keep it on the low down. Although the world has become more accepting of the idea, it's still a social faux pas to admit to the general public that you're banging someone that you aren't in a relationship with (although to admit it to your boys is still totally acceptable.) So if you've got something going on, keep it on the hush.
- Be clear about rules. This relates to the first tip. You and your partner are entering into an agreement. Although there isn't a written contract (unless you both sign one,) you're entering into a verbal contract. This means you need to keep your word and also have faith that your partner will keep their word. The boundaries you set are totally up to you, but in the end, there needs to be a clear understanding as to what is cool and what is not.
- Trust. Absolute trust needs to exist between two consenting adults engaging in no strings attached sex. With the internet, it's amazingly easy to find someone to start banging within about fifteen minutes, but that's only going to get you a spot on the waiting list at the clinic. It is imperative to trust the partner you're with when getting involved in a no strings attached situation. Yeah, we can all go to the club and pick up a willing partner, but you'll most likely put yourself at risk of picking up much more if you're not careful (hint: STD.) It's best to know the person you're hooking up with in order to ease any potential fears.