How To Have Phone Sex Conversations

With the hectic pace of today's world, and with practically everyone owning a cell phone, it's only natural for people to wonder how to have phone sex conversations. Phone sex allows lovers to be united, even from thousands of miles away, and can serve as a great way to remain intimate, even if you can't be there in person. If you want to know how to have great phone sex, read on ... just make sure no one is listening in.

1. Privacy. Look, don't be that guy who starts talking dirty his girl on the phone, only to have your mom bust up in your room. That will kill the mood quicker than calling out another girl's name in bed. If you're going to have phone sex, make sure you have the privacy required. If you're using a land line, make sure no one else has access to it. If you're getting hot and steamy and you hear heavy breathing on the other end, make sure it's your girl and not your creepy uncle listening in.
2. Battery life and reception. If you're using a cell phone and you know your battery is low or you're in a bad reception area, don't bother trying phone sex. Again, mood killer. Imagine you're working your girl into a frenzy, she's moaning with pleasure, then things get quiet. Make sure the phone is charged and that you won't have to interrupt her by saying, “can you hear me now?”
3. Have confidence. Now is not the time to get mousy. Get your mind right and go for it. Realize that because you're not there to do the deed for real, your voice is your representation. Use your mind to make love and translate that into the inflection in your voice. Pay attention to the tone and flow of what you're saying. Get seductive with it. Think about the guys on soap operas ... you know, the ones that always get the girl's weak in the knees? Now's your chance to be that guy! No longer are you the acne prone guy living in his parent’s basement. No, you're the muscle bound guy who can charm the pants off any girl. See this as an excuse to role play. She doesn't have to look at your love handles, so don't talk like you have them.
4. Have fun. Look, in the end, the whole point of phone sex, and sex in general, is to have fun. If you're getting into it and you screw up and say something stupid, go with it. Both of you can laugh about it and let it go. If things get tense and weird, neither of you will enjoy it. Try to lean back, close your eyes, and just speak from the heart. Allow your girl to fill your fantasies. Imagine she's right there with you ... what would you do to her? Girls enjoy the experience, not just the act. Allow yourself to describe the details of everything you want to do to her.