How To Have Sex With Friends

By: Steve Long

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Learn how to have sex with friends, to enhance your sex life. Having sex with friends can be a great way to relieve sexual tension, in a convenient manner. Casual relationships aka friends with benefits is also a potentially a good way to test the waters for sexual compatibility if you are open to a relationship in the future. Keep in mind that this proposition can also be a minefield for disaster if you do not properly think it through. 

  1. Narrow down the list of friends, to find good possible choices for casual sex. If you are planning on having sex with a friend, pick a person who will least likely be in a position to turn you down. Someone who has been single for a while is a good candidate. Avoid starting sexual relationships with those you work with, especially if you are in a position of power. 
  2. Learn how to proposition your friends for sex, without embarrassment. The best way to ask someone is indirectly. Indirect propositions allow the other party to have an easy out if they are not interested. This method also gives you the ability to be rejected without embarrassment, while continuing the friendship. Instead of directly talking about sex with each other, try talking about sex in general. Openly having indirect conversations regarding sex can be a good way to test the waters with regards to the other person’s interest level.
  3. Prepare yourself for the consequences. There are several possible options which you should prepare for, including buyer’s remorse from one or both sides.  If it turns out that your friend is the one with buyer’s remorse, than you will need to find a way to defuse the situation to maintain your friendship.  You should also prepare in case one party may decide they want more from the relationship as well.  Intercourse with friends need to be carefully thought through, so that you do not end up ruining a good friendship because of sex.
Posted on: Nov. 11, 2010