How To Have Sex Longer

By: Jason Morales

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Need to know how to have sex longer? The feeling of not letting your woman experience pleasure can become a frustrating and unfulfilling for both parties. Not helping your partner to climax may put thoughts of inadequacy into your head. However, there are solutions that can help with this issue.

  1. Wear a thicker set of protection. There are various types of condoms, but some provide an extra layer of latex. This will help reduce any sensory feelings and prolong the need to ejaculate, allowing you to have sex longer. Desensitizing condoms or creams are the holy grail for those who underperform. Men with pre-mature ejaculation (PE) can benefit from this numbing agent, which will increase your ability to have sex longer. However, this solution should be used in secure relationships.
  2. Schedule in time for sex. Talk to your partner and be open about when you two want to have sex. Wait 30 to 15 minutes before your schedule sex escapade and masturbate. Men who release themselves are able to have sex longer than they normally would have. Another method is to practice masturbating often and when you reach the point of climax – stop stimulating yourself. Wait for your erection to soften and resume your activity. Consistency will help you have sex longer than you usually do.
  3. Medical help. Certain medications can help those who suffer from pre-mature ejaculation, but you should first consult your doctor if you're healthy enough to go this route.
  4. Try something different. Many have heard about tantric sex, but few know about it. Developed in India, it has provided people an experience that helps those to have sex longer. It incorporates breathing techniques to help relax your body and mind. This includes, breathing in as your partner breaths out and vice-versa. Your brain is a sex organ, and when you learn to control your brain (with the help of tantra), you will benefit from having sex longer.
Posted on: Dec. 04, 2010