How To Have Sex With My Friend

By: Slade K

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Are you asking the question: "how to have sex with my friend?". If so, there are a lot of different items to consider. Obviously, there are implications that can persist as a result of a sexual relationship between two friends. Additionally, the entire concept can be difficult to approach. This article outlines some basics in having sex with a friend that can help ensure a more pleasing experience for both people involved.

  1. Test the waters in a public setting. When looking to approach the concept of having sex with a friend, things can definitely appear complicated. The best way to test the water initially is to do so in a public setting. In a place where there are a lot of people drinking socially and having a good time, it can be easier to play off a mutual attraction for one another and get flirty. How your friend responds will give a good indication as to whether or not sex is something that is even possible at the time; if all arrows point to yes, then try taking it to the next level.
  2. Be aware of their feelings and situation. An important item to consider in looking to have sex with your friend is to know their current situation in life and how that situation might effect their decisions. If it is a situation where your friend has just broken up with a long-time boyfriend and she is looking to you for comfort, it might not be a good idea to take advantage of the situation till you know they are not acting on their resulting feelings of the breakup and are genuinely interested in sex.
  3. Do not be afraid to talk about it. If the time comes that two friends do end up having sex, do not be afraid to talk about it afterwards. The longer the both of you wait to talk about it, the more awkward the friendship will become; and the sexual experience you shared together will turn into something negative that could prospect fully even end the friendship.

In all, approaching the concept of having sex with your friend can be a difficult task. There are many things to consider that if not looked into properly, could result in the ending of your friendship. By following and exercising some of the above suggestions, it will be easy to know whether or not having sex with a friend is a good idea.

Posted on: Nov. 30, 2010