How To Have Sex While Standing
Learning how to have sex while standing can add a powerful tool to your sexual arsenal. Whether you and your partner are looking for some fun in a place other than the bedroom or you want to try something a little different, sex while standing up brings some real heat to any sexual relationship. Though it might take a few tries the first time, you and your partner can pull it off pretty easily with a bit of maneuvering. To learn more about sex while standing, read on.
- Make sure you and your partner are physically able to have sex in a standing position. If, for example, you and your partner have an unreasonably large height difference, you’ll have to make adjustments for sex while standing to work. The keys to figuring out what works best for the both you are a willingness to talk about how you want to do it and not being afraid to laugh at yourselves if it doesn’t work out like you planned the first few times. If it’s medical issues that are keeping you and your partner from having sex while standing up, you could try a hybrid sex position. The woman, for example, could sit on an elevated surface while you stand. A little creativity goes a long way in finding the best standing sex position for you.
- Be sure to take advantage of the versatility of stand-up sex. There are several of ways to have sex while standing up. The woman can be facing you while both of you stand. She can also turn around and face a wall while you come in from behind. Or, if you’re feeling up to it, you can have her hold onto the back of your neck while you cradle her legs with your arms, lifting her off the floor (known as the Stand n’ Carry). Try all of them to see which one you two like best.
- If you and your partner are explorative in nature, getting good at having sex while standing up is a great asset. Because no surfaces are necessary, sex in a standing position magically transforms any place into a bedroom. It could be a campsite, a shower or even bathroom stall (no judgment here). As long as you’re both into it, stand-up sex can be performed pretty much anywhere. So before you brush it off as too difficult or dirty, consider sex while standing up as a spicy alternative to you and your partner’s typical bedroom routine.