How To Have Sexy Threesomes

Planning to have a sexy threesome is a task many people wish they had on their to-do list. In 2004, ABC published the results of a poll indicating that only 14 percent of adults have ever participated in a threesome while 21 percent have fantasized about it. Whether this is your first group sex experience or you're a pro at it, there is always the potential for a more satisfying outcome both spiritually and bodily. With a little planning, a threesome can be the most beautiful and sexy few hours of your life.

1. Two women or two men?  This question is not so daunting for a single person as it is for one in a relationship. The single guy can construct his fantasy to match the one he's been dreaming of for years without any fallout from a significant other. For the man with a girlfriend, it can be trickier. Take into account what your partner has to say. Maybe she has always dreamt of experimenting with a woman. Most women find two men kissing to be a turn on, so if you are shy about wanting to experiment, just consider it a favor to your lady. Be honest about your desires and see what decision feels best.  
2. Discuss safety. Always use protection during a sexual encounter, especially when you are introducing someone new into the mix. It is also recommended that you discuss any sexually transmitted diseases or health concerns before you arrange your threesome. The last thing you want is to have an amazing night only to worry the next day about possible pregnancies or diseases. 
3. Establish boundaries. Not everyone has the same likes and dislikes when it comes to sex and not everyone has had a threesome before. A great way to ensure a sexy night is for everyone to playfully explain their comfort levels and personal boundaries. It is much easier to do before the sex ensues and should ease any anxiety about crossing the line. 
4. Set the mood. Where is this this sexy threesome taking place? It doesn't have to be on a bed. Get creative with the environment and you can transport your experience to an exotic land where the only goal is pleasure. Throw a bunch of silky pillows on the carpet, light scented candles and choose music that goes with your theme. For an added touch, hang sheets from the ceiling to resemble a sultan's bedroom. These details will greatly enhance your night.
5. Be in love. Approach your sexual partners with care, respect and love. You are bound to have an amazingly sexy time with something as exciting as a threesome, but to receive the most enjoyment possible, be in love for the moment as well. You want your partners to achieve maximum pleasure and you are sure to receive it back. This will add a spiritual layer to the event and make it an experience you will never forget. 
6. Let go of expectations. You will never know ahead of time what the chemistry will be like between the three of you. Be relaxed and free from expectations so you can adapt to the moment with ease. Besides, with all the planning you've done, the night will exceed anything you could dream of.