How To Help Her Pick Her First Vibrator

Getting a vibrator for your girlfriend can be tricky and knowing how to help her pick her first vibrator will help a lot in the long run. There are many different options and styles of vibrators on the market. Figuring out that she needs and what she would be comfortable with is important in selecting the correct vibrator for her.

Things you'll need:

  • Access to local sex shop
  • Computer with internet access
  1. Figure out what she is looking for in a vibrator. Does she want one that offers clitoral stimulation or G-spot stimulation? Is she looking for a vibrator that is really quiet or really discreet? Does she want an intense one or one that offers slow stimulation? Figuring out what she is looking for specifically will narrow the field and zero in on what she wants.
  2. How intense does she want the vibrator to be? This depends on how sensitive she is. If she has a very firm touch during masturbation or if she really liked fast and hard sex, a vibrator with a strong vibration would be a good choice. If she is really sensitive, a vibrator with slow speed is better. Try a vibrator with adjustable speed control so she can find the perfect setting herself.
  3. What material does she want? Some vibrators are made of metal, plastic and jelly. Metal vibrators tend to be the most intense; jelly tends to be the least intense; and plastic falls somewhere in the middle.
  4. What size is she looking for? This will probably depend on her living situation. If she has a big apartment by herself, size might not matter. If she travels a lot or shares a room with a roommate, she might do better with a smaller, more portable one. Some are no bigger than a finger or a tampon, while others are the size of a real penis. Explore with her to see what she would like. Always go smaller if you aren’t sure it will fit inside her comfortably.
  5. What is the price range? If you’re low on budget, stores like Hot Topic and Spencer’s sell vibrators for a reasonable price. Search online for vibrators of better quality, which will cost more. Some online vendors will ship the vibratos in discreet packaging, making it more post office friendly.

The most important thing to keep in mind is that this vibrator is for her. Even if you think a certain style is better or is insanely hot, she needs to like it. Work with her to find a style of vibrator that fits her the best.