How To Initiate A First Kiss

Are you wondering how to initiate a first kiss? The first kiss with a woman should be one of the most memorable times of your life. The hard part is figuring out how to initiate the kiss. Take a deep breath, have some confidence, and let's make it happen.

  1. Make sure that you are ready for the kiss emotionally. Most men are almost ready for a kiss from a woman, but it is still important to protect your heart as well as her heart. Don't even think about kissing someone who you are not interested. Don't kiss her if you just plan on dumping her. Respect her feelings in the matter as well. A woman deserves a kiss from someone is truly trying to pursue her and not a man who is just using her for some affection or a one night stand.
     
  2. Practice good hygiene.  The right moment for that first kiss may pop up at an unexpected time, and you need to be prepared at any given time. Make sure that you take a shower daily, put on clean clothes, wear deodorant, and brush and floss your teeth. Oral hygiene is by far the most important part of a kiss. Trust me, if you have stinky breath the first time you kiss a woman, she will not be so tempted to do it with you again. Carry some breath mints or gum with you at all times in case the "perfect moment" for the kiss comes up right after you have eaten something like pizza with garlic and onions.

  3. Choose your moment wisely. The entire night or day leading up to the kiss should be a wonderful experience for both of you. The most perfect kisses happen after the end of a perfect date. Plan the date of a lifetime and when the date is over you can make your move.
     
  4. Ease into the kiss. Don't just smash your face into hers and stick your tongue down her throat. Take your woman's hands in yours and look deep into her eyes. Say something sweet to her like how much you enjoy the time you spend with her or how beautiful she is. Please don't call her hot or tell her you want to get into her pants. Save that sort of conversation for another moment. Touch her face softly and lean in for the big moment. Let this first kiss be gentle with little to no tongue. If she responds well to the kiss then go ahead and kiss some more. If you are romantic, caring, and considerate you will leave her wanting more of your kisses and a wonderful memory of the first kiss.

     

 

 

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