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How To Kiss Girls

By: Nya Bruce

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Knowing how to kiss girls isn't something that comes naturally for all guys. If this sounds like you, it isn't something to be ashamed of; in fact it's better to realize that you could use a little education on the matter than to believe that your kiss is bliss when it is in fact anything but. Learning how to kiss might sound a little alarming and like the perfect opportunity to embarrass yourself, but you shouldn't let that stand in your way. With the right approach and the right girl, you can learn how to kiss girls without her ever knowing (or caring) that you are perfecting your technique.

  1. Make sure your breath is fresh. The single most important part of kissing is to make sure that your mouth and breath are clean. Attempting to kiss girls with foul breath and a scuzzy tongue is the easiest way to repel the opposite sex and give you a bad reputation in addition. Brush your teeth and tongue on a regular basis and avoid eating strong foods such as onions when you are planning to kiss.

  2. Pick the right location. For girls, the right moment means everything when it comes to a kiss especially when it is a first kiss. Spontaneity is one thing, but if you are planning to share a kiss, take into consideration where you'll be when making the move. Pick a spot that is private where she'll be comfortable but is free of ill-timed interruptions. Pick a time when you can tell that she is comfortable with you and when a kiss feels appropriate.

  3. Move in slow. The first thing to remember is that no girl wants to be pounced on especially if it is a first kiss. Bring your face in slowly and savor the anticipation of the kiss. Make eye contact as you begin to move forward to judge her reaction to the idea of a kiss. If she does not draw away, lower your gaze to her lips and angle your head slightly.

  4. Let your lips touch. Gently graze your closed lips over hers. The first touch should be short and feather light almost non-existent. Lean back slightly to judge her reaction to the kiss. If she isn't into it, she'll move away. If she stays put then she's anticipating more kisses.

  5. Go in to kiss her again. Press your lips against hers again, more firmly this time lingering a little longer with the kiss. Continue with several lingering closed mouth kisses before slightly parting your lips. Wait for her to do the same and if she does continue kissing with lips parted. This isn't about kissing her with your tongue, so keep it in your mouth at this point.

  6. Mind your body language. As your perfecting how to kiss girls, remember to include touch. Touch her face gently with the pads of your fingers, hold her hand lightly or caress her hair. Girls enjoy these signs of affection and it will only intensify her response to the kiss. Do not touch her in other parts of her body however, which can be interpreted negatively and could bring your kiss to an abrupt and unpleasant end.

Posted on: Jul. 17, 2010