How To Kiss With Tongues

By: Christine Gray

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Whether or not you've ever kissed anyone before, you may be wondering about how to kiss  with tongues. The good news is that learning how to kiss with tongues is fairly instinctual for most people, and this is definitely one of those cases where practice makes perfect. However, if you want to avoid any awkward moments the first time you kiss, or the first time you kiss someone new, here are a few pointers to peruse about how to kiss with tongues.

  1. Be prepared. Half an hour after eating garlic bread is not the time to take a trial run at figuring out how to kiss with tongues with a new partner. A considerate partner makes sure his mouth is clean and fresh. You don't have to taste like Listerine, but tasting like Listerine is better than most other things you could taste like.
  2. Close your eyes. There is nothing more awkward than briefly opening your eyes during a passionate kiss only to find your partner staring at you like a serial killer. It's fine to blink or open your eyes for a moment, but do not stare fish-eyed at your partner. If you learn nothing else about how to kiss with tongues, learn this.
  3. Start slowly. If you find yourself in a situation where you are kissing someone, embracing them passionately, you can assume that they must like you at least a bit, and probably won't run away at the first chance, so slow down and take your time. Take time kissing with a closed mouth and then slowly opening your mouth instead of just sticking your tongue straight into your partner's mouth.
  4. Judge your partner's reaction. If you're exploring your partner's dental work and she's nibbling on your lips, you're probably being too aggressive for her tastes. Mirror her actions. After all, if she likes this first encounter, you'll have plenty of opportunities to count her fillings later while you both explore how to kiss with tongues together.

Thankfully, learning how to kiss with tongues is a skill most of us master after an appropriate period of on-the-job training.

Posted on: Aug. 03, 2010