How To Know She's Cheating On Me

By: Anessia Walker

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Have you ever thought to yourself, "I need to how to know she's cheating on me for sure." One thing women have learned to do better than men when it comes to cheating is covering their tracks. She may come across as the prefect girlfriend, very loving and attentive, but one day that may change. Women can be very sneaky and devious when cheating. But at some point she will let the cat out of the bag. Obviously she has put doubt in your head and the speculation continues to grow. You don’t want to convict her before you know for sure she’s cheating.

  1. She starts arguments for no apparent reason. Does she seem to pick for no reason? Are you starting to have the sneaky suspicion it’s intentional? Just so she will have a reason to go storming out of the house so she can clear her head, as she says. Then again it could just be out of guilt. You may not know she’s cheating, but the signs may be starting to point that way.
  2. The affection is not what it used to be. Women thrive on giving and receiving affection. Now she doesn’t seem to care whether you touch her or not. What could cause her behavior to change so dramatically? She went from giving you hugs and kisses before she leaves the house to barely saying see you later. If she is not cheating on you at this point, she’s very close to the edge.
  3. She hardly spends time with you. Her schedule seems to be book tighter then the President of the United States. It’s hard to make plans for the two of you to go out. She always seems to be busy, but she still makes time to hang-out with other friends. Maybe your suspicions of her cheating seem are a reality.
  4. Your conversations are becoming shorter and farther in between. Before you enjoyed her company, communication was great, you could talk for hours. Now she gets short with you and always seems anxious to end the conversation. You may not be ready to except it, but there is a possibility that she is cheating on you.
  5. She has made a drastic change in her wardrobe. She may have always had a keen sense for fashion, but how sexy and revealing are her clothes? When you question her choice of clothes does she get a little snappy?  If she says it's just because she's going to hang out with friends, that’s a definite red flag that a little cheating is going on. 
  6. You are not getting any loving. This is one sign of cheating you can’t miss. She never seems to be in the mood for sex anymore. You get the impression she is trying to avoid being intimate with you in any way, shape or form.

You can speculate and make assumptions all you want. But if you just want to cut through all the red tape, just confront her about how different she has been behaving towards you. Ask her is there anything she wants or need to tell you. See if you can get her to spill the beans.

Posted on: Dec. 10, 2010